Aftercare 

I have confession to make… I don’t want to be snuggled after a spanking. 😳 Typical protocol after a session, especially an intense session, is aftercare. That can mean something simple like providing water, evaluating emotional state, holding/gentle physical contact, rubbing sore muscles or applying aloe/arnica, or just talking.  After a spanking I am boneless …

Pain Slut

There are a couple of things I’ve been thinking about in the realm of BDSM. More and more I realized I’m becoming less of a casual observer and more of a committed practicitioner. I wanted to devote a post or two to my musings. Feel free to join in. I’ll even add a photo of …

Double Down

A little help from my friends! I decided to take the comments and work them into a bit of a serial. Let’s see how far I go. I’m feeling really rusty so forgive me. Here’s the first prompt from Hy: She hung back a little, but I got the impression she just needed a door opened …