thinking

Sub-drop 

I admit to being slightly fascinated by this particular component of things.  What is sub-drop?  I mean, I think I can reason out what it is on a physiological level. It looks similar to a depression following a large high. An addict would experience this if they’ve dosed with a drug; large chemical rush, greater …

Aftercare 

I have confession to make… I don’t want to be snuggled after a spanking. 😳 Typical protocol after a session, especially an intense session, is aftercare. That can mean something simple like providing water, evaluating emotional state, holding/gentle physical contact, rubbing sore muscles or applying aloe/arnica, or just talking.  After a spanking I am boneless …

Child’s Eyes

I watched this video and it made me think of a different tale that inspired me to write a story earlier this year. Domestic violence or intimate partner violence is far more complicated than just fist and bruises. The impact is deep and far-reaching. Listen to the video first, it’ll make your stomach ache. — …

Quiet

I can be talkative, but sometimes I get quiet. Is it better to keep silent? I think some things need time to ruminate before it’s worth uncovering, saying. It’s necessary to process and figure out what the results and consequences of an action will be. I can’t see it yet so I can’t talk about …