N.Likes wrote a post recently that seemed to get brain going.
In case you didn’t know this, I date white guys. Actually, only white guys. Mostly because I grew up in a predominantly white neighborhood, went to a predominantly white school then college, and tend to be pursued by white guys. I’m open to other races so let’s not make a big deal about my preferences. Mmkay
Anyway, porn doesn’t do a good job catering to my preferences. At all.
I have scoured the Internet. Looking for that which represents me and what I like. Much like dating, it hasn’t been pretty. I’ve had far more misses then hits and that’s a little irritating.
Erotic pictures or porn portraying a black woman and a white man is rarely tasteful. The woman never looks like how I picture myself. Yes, I have a big ass. Yes, I like kink. Yes, my hair is natural, but… I am not the stereotype of a black woman and I get a little pissed when I can’t find stuff that matches the sexual experiences I have.
The girls are brassy, trashy at times, and most look uncomfortable. That’s not how I see sex when I have it.
I love the contrast of my skin against paler skin. I’m not eroticizing, but it is hot. To see scenes that are hot and loving. Scenes that are tasteful erotic moments. Scenes where the contrast is highlighted. Kinky moments with bound women whose faces look mine, whose responses are like mine, whose bodies move like mine moves.
No time to delve into the why of it all. I’d rather be having sex than dissecting the lack of good choices! And yet here I am talking about how it’s rare to find porn I like that pair a white man and a black woman. I tend to stick to watching white couples because nothing else works.
What does a girl have to do to see tasteful porn/erotica/photos between a black women and white man??
Make her own I guess… I’ll need one or two willing participants to partner with in this endeavor. Must be willing to have different forms of sex with me while being filmed. Drop your Applications in my email.
You know you’d look good on camera next to this!
😉
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Hmmm
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Deep in thought there?
Nah, he’s just looking for your email address…
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Bahahahaha. I’m sure he already has it.
Something to think about indeed 🙂
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Ooo. Let me know what you decide
I’ve always wanted to be in films
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“Put me in, Coach, I’m ready to play”
Ha, yes, I’ve always had a thing for the contrast between skin colours…
I don’t watch porn, usually, so I don’t really have an opinion, but I feel for you!
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It’s not even just porn. If I could find tastefully done erotic images, I’d be happy. Not much seems to be available
Would black man/white woman work at all? I know it’s different, harder for you to identify with the woman, but the skin colour is there 🙂
I know Elle had nice pictures 🙂
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I have a really hard time getting into it mentally if I want to get off though I like photos. Those are usually tastefully done.
I understand. I hope you find something that satisfies you, or that you get to make your own 🙂
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Probably making my own will be the way to go
Or probably the way to cum?
have you tried https://makelovenotporn.tv ?
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I have, but I think I just need to give the site a better peruse to find what I’m looking for.
i have not really explored it either, but since you said you would like to make your own that is an option here as well…
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Ah yes. Thank you for that reminder.
Frankly, if you and I ever do manage to get together, I’d be disappointed if we didn’t take photos 🙂
To answer the three queries I’ve had so far…the post Cara referred to at the start links to N.Likes…unfortunately, not me.
I’m a porn snob, for sure. And if you’re ever looking to make a 3 way video, you know how to hit me up! Mwah!
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I’m definitely not a snob, buy something that’s reflective of my life would be good.
Come on over. We’d make something nice together!
And you look absolutely gorgeous BTW!
the juxtaposition of cocoa and cream – always an alluring thought
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Yesss! So lovely
Oh great Cara… now my Pink is getting hard, and I had a lot to do this morning… guess some things will have to wait. I think ‘hot and loving’ is the key to good porn, and the opposite colors would add a different dimension.
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Sorry about your pink. Lol.
I think that’s the part that makes it good for me. At least the appearance in most cases. Sometimes it doesn’t and I just like the sex for the act itself.
*ahem* *steps forward in the line*
You know this posts reminds me of a discussion I had with a good friend recently. 🙂
Oh and – HOT DAMN! You look good 😉
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A very valid discussion.
Indeed
mmmmm, you look awesome!
I’ve lately been scouring the webs for some black girl porn I like. There isn’t much. My favorite sites – SexArt, X-Art, Amateur Allure, and Only All Sites are, in the aggregate, something like 95% white, 3% Asian, and 2% black. Or something like that. Add to that, on SexArt and X-Art, the tiny number of black female models are either so light-skinned/straight-haired as to look white. In general, I think that’s the way the web goes for black women in porn: either they’re “white-looking” or they’re some sort of caricature of “black-looking,” with an emphasis on ghetto. It’s just icky.
I don’t really get this. I mean, I know that the market for porn nearly perfectly serves up what we the consumers want collectively, but can it really be true that we don’t want to see a variety of attractive black women, with a variety of body types, hairstyles, and general demeanors?
If you stumble upon any porn that you like, please share it with me. And I can’t think of many things I’d enjoy more than shooting a little porn with you.
N.
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I haven’t figured out the why of this. Perhaps it’s not enough of a demand for producers to make it. Or the nature of the industry is more about the norm than exploring true examples of pairings available in real life. Maybe those are the only types of girls willing to act in it so the industry plays up the stereotype.
You know I’ve often wondered the same thing as it’s my preferred pairing in porn. Very thought provoking article x
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Very frustrating. And that means I need to explore my idea of creating what I want
There’s certainly a huge gap in the market that’s for sure
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It’s far easier to find porn depicting a black man/white woman. The other way around is a little tougher. I’m glad you got that experience!
Yes I agree because Bobby and I were looking for it as well. It’s really too bad.
I’ve had similar frustrations – I’m no more interested in white pussy, Aisia, pussy, black pussy, or Arab pussy, but porn does still seem to be predominantly, and disapointingly white. When I’ve wanted to see something no white, it’s really difficult to come up with search terms that won’t return porn that borders on sexploitation types of images, of buys into crass stereotypes.
I don’t have a solution.
In the meantime, I’m sure you’re right and I would look good next to that, but I’d look better in it. 😉
Maybe you would like this…
https://www.dropbox.com/s/7ajmx3jj9t1djlq/september.wmv?dl=0
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Do you have more like this or a link to the full video?
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